Well I like vms better then a pm, I have no pm's unless it's from friends and I get to vknow people in vm before adding them that's why I have less friends than anyone on here, because I don't rush into anyone and don't just meet up with random people, if we roleplay and we know nothing about each other, it wouldn't even work out.
I still don't know you, out of the people I reply to are my friends on my friends list, I don't talk to anyone else dude, I'm just a bisexual person nothing more, I know my persona is a chick but still, vming someone and getting to know them is a first.