I'm very ashamed to admit it, but I cheated on my wife. I hadn't thought about it before, and it happened by accident. I was drunk and didn't know what I was doing. It seemed to me that everything that was happening was something normal. Then, when this girl sent me a photo in the morning of us kissing, I was shocked. I really didn't remember that. My wife is very good, we have been with her for a long time, and I just don't know how to confess to her what I've done. The girl threatens that she will send a photo (she says that she has more revealing photos) to my wife if I don't sleep with her anymore. I am very ashamed, and I know that my wife will not forgive me for this and will definitely file for divorce in Michigan. But I deliberately cannot sleep with this girl. Guys, please tell me. I'm lost.